The Divorce Girl (Blog Tour and Giveaway): YA or Adult?

July 30, 2012 in Book Club Possibility, Helping Girls and Women Around the World, High School Teachers, Journal Writing, Mirriam-Goldberg Caryn, Six plus one traits of writing, Young Adult Novels Tags: , , ,

The Divorce Girl: A Novel of Art and Soul by Caryn Mirriam-Goldberg
Publisher: Ice Cube Press

I’m excited to introduce to you–The Divorce Girl as part of the WOW! Women On Writing blog tour. What a great, great book. I was captivated on page one and couldn’t wait to get to the end of the book. I recommend this book to ANYONE! I have a print copy to give away–from the author. Please leave a question and/or comment about the book by Sunday, August 5 at 8:00 pm CST to be entered to win (US mailing addresses only, please.)

Here’s my review:

From the first page of The Divorce Girl: A Novel of Art and Soul by Caryn Mirriam-Goldberg, readers will discover that it’s a well-written novel with a lively, witty, teenage voice narrating the story. Mirriam-Goldberg captivates you on page one and doesn’t let go until the end of the book. She includes unique, well-rounded characters; unusual settings; and plenty of interesting subplots as well as an understanding of how the world and people work, especially during and after a divorce.

Mirriam-Goldberg is the 2009-2012 Poet Laureate of Kansas. Her love of words and ability to string them together to create a masterpiece shines through in this novel. Simply stated: “It’s a good book!” Although divorce is a subject that has been written about thousands of times in YA and women’s fiction, The Divorce Girl will still fascinate readers who will be drawn into the story because of Mirriam-Goldberg’s writing. So is it YA or is it adult? Read on to find out. (And my advice ALWAYS to teachers and parents trying to decide is. . .read it yourself first. In this case, you will LOVE the book, even if you decide not to share it with your teenagers.)

It centers on Deborah, a high school student in New Jersey in the 1970s and oldest daughter of Jewish parents, who announce that they are getting divorced with no huge surprise to her. Her parents have been fighting for years, and it became progressively worse after a baby sibling died of SIDS.

At first when the divorce is announced, Deborah’s father takes a special interest in her, leaving the two younger (surviving) children with their mother. Her dad takes her regularly to eat at a diner, where a Greek hostess, Fatima, works. It soon becomes clear that he has an ulterior motive to these dad-daughter dinners. But Deborah doesn’t seem to mind. She likes the attention from her father, who is talking to her as if she is an equal.

Because of the special attention from her father and the tensions that rise with her mother during the divorce proceedings, Deborah winds up choosing to live with her father and Fatima, which causes many problems within the family, including with her grandparents.

Soon, she realizes that her father isn’t quite the man she thought he was or that he presents himself to be in public; but she doesn’t feel like she has anywhere else to go. He works her hard, too—at home, cooking and cleaning, and at a weekend auction, similar to a flea market, selling large-sized clothing.

The good thing is Deborah loves photography and has quite a talent for it, and her father allows her to take a photography course. He also allows her to get involved with a youth group at the local, and somewhat liberal, temple.

These two outlets and the people there basically save her soul from destruction, as she lives with an abusive father and is estranged from her mother.

Although this book is written with a teenage narrator, the author states that it is a book intended for adults or older teens. Deborah does face violence and abuse, and there are a few sexual encounters and several four-letter words. However, in today’s YA market, there are several books, marketed to the YA audience, that also do this.

“This is a novel for anyone who has been through challenges and found ways through by coming home to themselves and making something of their lives,” Mirriam-Goldberg states on the WOW! Women On Writing blog. “The main character is a teenager, but she crosses the threshold into being a woman on her own two feet over the course of the novel. I believe this novel can offer readers of many ages hope and inspiration.”

Mirriam-Goldberg has published a few other books, including some poetry books. Although Ice Cube Press is a small, independent publisher, they chose to publish a wonderful author with a gripping story to tell.

Don’t forget to leave a comment for your chance to win by Sunday, August 5 at 8:00 pm!


11 Responses to “The Divorce Girl (Blog Tour and Giveaway): YA or Adult?”

  1. Amie Says:

    I just looked it up on Amazon and downloaded a sample to my Kindle. I know you read a lot of books and if you give it 5 stars I trust it’s going to be a good one. Definitely a relevant topic. Thanks Margo.

  2. June SENGPIEHL Says:

    This sounds like an interesting book. I am sure it will definitely fit into the YA niche and probably help some teens. It sounds like it shows how to survive a
    broken home.

  3. Steve Says:

    Would be tempting to let my 12 year old daughter read it if it weren’t for the sex. Not crazy about the violence and abuse either for a girl my daughter’s age.

    Wouldn’t mind her reading about the girl’s hard work cooking, cleaning and selling at the auction. Might encourage her to help out a bit more. :)

  4. Susan J Berger Says:

    I would be most interested in reading this. I was a child of divorce. I can see this book is not like any of the divorces I personally experienced but it sounds most interesting. I want to hear the voice.

  5. Penelope Anne Cole Says:

    I’m also a child of divorce (as a teenager at college), and divorced myself (no children involved). So I would be interested in reading this story, too. Thanks for the review and blog offer.

  6. Margo Dill Says:

    @Steve: I probably would let KM read this book. There are A LOT of four-letter words and the dad is AWFUL. :) I would probably say: 16 and up. . . ??

    @Susan and @Penelope: The voice is wonderful, and I think you would both really enjoy it.

    @Amie and @June: Thanks for stopping by!

  7. Holly Helscher Says:

    This sounds like a great read, Margo. The topic continues to be relevant. I think it may be more important for adult parents who are divorced to read it. Parents really have to understand how divorce impacts their children and their perspective. It’s much more than sitting them down and saying, “This isn’t your fault. We still love you. You’ll just have two houses.” I wish it really were that simple. Thanks for telling us about the book.

  8. Shelby Says:

    Well you had me at YA! ;) No really, sounds very interesting and a little different than what I generally read.

  9. Margo Dill Says:

    Congratulations, Holly! You are the winner of THE DIVORCE GIRL! Everyone else, consider buying it as an ebook or print book. See Amazon link above. :) Happy reading.

  10. Sarah Butland Says:

    Congratulations Holly! I got to this too late but I’m sure it will be an intriguing read for you.

    Enjoy it!

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